Swingers stay safe. Safe sex and other issues

Swingers stay safe. Safe sex and other issues

You see, they were a pushy type of couple. Over the internet where we first met and chatted they tried to make themselves out to be people they weren't. By the time we hand planned on meeting for dinner, somewhere in the back of the husband's mind he had decided that dinner was his chance for full on hard sex.

Ok so you might think I am being tough on him. No… not tough enough… We sat down to dinner after meeting for the first time and he sat next to me. Well he was slime. His hands were all over me to the stage that when my partner got up to go to the gents I moved into his seat. His wife sort of looked strange at me because she had no idea what he had done.

It wasn't until later that we found out that they really hadn't ‘swung' with anyone because the husband seemed to turn a lot of people off. Well for someone who sees a lot of men this guy really did turn me off. And he didn't even know what I did in my spare time, so it wasn't that.

A word of advice for those who think they can be a slime bag when it comes to swinging; you will ruin your chances of having fun with some great people if you carry on like a prune or an anal wart… so grow up, behave yourself and have fun at the same time.

This same guy's thoughts were that you can only catch AIDS/HIV and you can't catch it having sex without protection so he always made sure he was tested for aids. But stop and think for a moment, we all know that there are other STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) that one can be infected with if you do not take precautions or if you are naïve like he was.

He tried to reassure me, someone who is always taking precautions that no one can catch anything from having sex without a condom… ok…

I think even his partner was astounded at such stupidity… but she never said anything. She just glared at him because she knew that with his potty mouth and his attitude that the chances of enjoying a threesome, foursome or swapping partners had just flown out the window.

All I can really say to you is; if you are going to have numerous sex partners, you not only have to keep yourself safe and well, but others too. If you are concerned asked first and remember that some people will go all out to have themselves tested regularly for any infections, STDs and HIV/AIDS.

Here in Australia we have sexual health clinics where anyone can go along and have a check up. Majority of the time it is free, however if you need to have hepatitis A or B shots then you have to pay for the injections. Going along to a sexual health clinic means your privacy is protected and you don't have to answer any strange questions that your regular family doctor may ask.

Next week I will cover some of the sexually transmitted diseases and other safe sex issues. This information will be great for swingers and if you happen to be seeing an escort or you are an escort there will be a little bit of information here for you too.

Be safe, enjoy swinging and don't act like a jerk when it comes time to meeting the people who may be great when it comes to swinging.

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