Swingers stay safe. Safe sex and other issues

Swingers stay safe. Safe sex and other issues

When it comes to swinging with other couples or groups that share the same interests as you some questions need to be answered before you begin. Making the decisions between 1 - practicing safe sex with people you don't know and they don't know you and 2 - whether one should be bisexual to improve the chances of swinging need to be made before you meet with the chosen couple of group before the day.

Let's start with the other issues before we look at practicing safe sex. The question on most people's lips or for that matter that is asked when signing up to a program that can offer you the chance to meet other swingers or at the time when you meet with swingers from groups in your local area (or other suburbs) is: Are you bisexual?

Well, what do you say? Is this question directed at the female partner or the male? After all both male and females can be bisexual…

Realistically most will ask this question to find out whether the female is bisexual.

Why? Because most guys like to see two girls together, a lot of the time when swingers get together you will often find two girls ‘getting it on' while the guys either watch or perform sexually on the girls at the same time.

When it comes to answering that question, be honest, not just with the person or persons who ask that question but with yourself. You, the female will not enjoy yourself and may even be turned off if you are in this situation when you really are not bisexual.

However if you feel you are bicurious then go for it and give it a try, but tell them that you would like to try and this will be your first time. That way they will not expect more than you can give as a person… who is bicurious.

Never lie about what you want to experience in this type of lifestyle.

Swinging can be fun if you admit why you want to try it and what you want to get out of such a lifestyle in the first place and admitting that you are bisexual or not, is just the start.

Practising safe sex I suppose depends on you and the other people involved. However practising safe sex will lead to you, being able to enjoy relationships with more people. When it came to swinging with the groups where I first had my swinging experience, they did practice safe sex. To me that was a blessing in disguise because it was a weight off my mind and my partner's mind. We had some peace of mind knowing that at least the people we were having fun with had tests just like we did and condoms were always on hand.

Some people may feel that you take practising sex a little too far. But one has to wonder how far keeping yourself safe can be taken. There was a couple here who my partner and I met and for our first time meeting they wanted to take the dinner that the four of us had planned, further than we felt comfortable with… with them.

Staying safe continued