UK swingers etiquette. What UK swingers need to know!

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Sharing

The very first thing to remember is that swinging is about sharing. It's two or more people sharing intimate times in either a private or group setting. It's not about taking, it's all about sharing. You share yourself and your partner with the other people at the party and that means that sometimes others will get to spend time with the guy or girl that you want.

If that happens then accept it and move on to someone else. Don't rush in, pushing others aside and try and take that person. Instead behave like an adult and accept the fact that there will be other occasions and other opportunities. You might also find that the person you do spend time with is more fun than the one you really wanted.

Be Polite .

A swinger's party is a gathering of mature adults for fun times. It's not the same as a night out with the boys, or a coffee break on the production line. Language and attitude that may be acceptable in those situations will not be acceptable at a party so temper your language and be courteous.

It's OK To Say No.

If you can't cope with polite rejection then perhaps you should not even think of getting into the swinging scene. There is never any compulsion in swinging and everyone has the right to say no. Some people describe it as the golden rule of swinging and if you are politely rejected then the way you handle that rejection will govern the way others in the group react to you.

Just because you really want to spend time with the hot little blonde who really knows how to give a great blowjob does not mean that she may want to spend time with you. It doesn't matter if you look Fabio, you're hung like a horse and you can last all night; if the answer to your invitation is ‘no' then accept it and move on.

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